https://bit.ly/3KxVuo7 https://bit.ly/3KpJTaC https://bit.ly/3A70rPO https://bit.ly/3AbYtgQ https://bit.ly/3FG2I5s https://bit.ly/3nC7bjA https://bit.ly/3nxzKP6 https://bit.ly/3tDWQaQ https://bit.ly/3Iap2pu https://bit.ly/33IU1u0 https://bit.ly/3FF1abS https://bit.ly/3GHeAp8 https://bit.ly/3Ik3C9L https://bit.ly/3FCrqUj https://bit.ly/3rro7dG https://bit.ly/3qBYasz A reality check for critics Strength and ceding control Acts of love 2005 Jul 10 - 19:15 | add new comment | latest article | previous article | next article | permanent link Positions I've always liked the missionary position, I find it very sexy. I hate being on top, it makes me feel very awkward and uncomfortable. I do like the feeling of him being in charge, and I just don't get that if I'm on top. I also enjoy it when we do it 'doggy style', that feels very sexy too. Also in that position he has the habit of whacking me with a hairbrush while he does it, which is very stiumlating! by Louise C on 2005 Jul 10 - 19:39 | reply to this comment its that submissiveness rearing its head, Sarah! ;) I dislike woman on top, and always have....and having recently learned from someone who shall remain nameless that some feminists preferred that position, if any (to advance women's "superiority"), I REALLY hate it! Unfortunately my husband sometimes likes it (btw he is now reading this forum, so maybe he will see this, lol). I used to be very heavy (over 300 lbs)...I'm now well under 200 lbs...but one thing I secretly liked about being that large was that it gave me a great excuse to avoid woman on top (thank goodness my husband didn't have a crushing fetish, lol!) I love missionary but also doggy style...I especially love it when he grabs my hair and uses it like the bridle of a horse....ooh la la! (sorry, you know how us Yanks are...very straightforward and direct!) ;) by BlueRose on 2005 Jul 10 - 20:00 | reply to this comment Missionary..... Well, I've only ever felt comfortable with the missionary position and it's the only one I have ever adopted. My husband seems ok with that too, although he is not sexually experimental or active, so wouldn't ask for anything else. To me, it allows me to feel under his control (even though there is no control play going on). I think it's the ability to have eye to eye contact and feel vulnerable to him (this is what goes on in my head anyway).