https://bit.ly/3ph3vE3 https://bit.ly/3d4YtEZ https://bit.ly/3xGDrpF https://bit.ly/3obHZkz https://bit.ly/3G3ZXeT https://bit.ly/3EeJTGS https://bit.ly/3EedtfA https://bit.ly/3G5COcc https://bit.ly/31bXvV9 https://bit.ly/3EfKCr4 https://bit.ly/3Dc10rt https://bit.ly/3lqTOlc https://bit.ly/3EcVnud https://bit.ly/3Iarmhd https://bit.ly/2ZGwJ6k https://bit.ly/3Daougr If you have to go out of your way for a girl, then it's chasing. I'm not saying that you shouldn't do it, but what I am saying, is that you need to be improving yourself to the point where you don't have to chase anymore. In other words, get your looks up to where women chase you or give you several invitations to approach (eye contact). The name of the game is power, and once you have that, the game becomes so much easier. Thanks for the reply. You also said that these days you don't approach a girl unless they show very strong indicators of interest towards you first. What are the strongest indicators you'll look for if you do decide to approach? Eye contact. It's as simple as that. Improve yourself, dress nice, take care of your body, and you'll get lots of it. It's to the point now where I get so much of it, I don't have to worry about approaching random women using "shotgun" style game anymore. When i approach now, I at least know that she is curious about me. First off, I would like to commend you on "The Chosen Verses". I am currently a high school senior about to graduate. Over the past two years, I have become infatuated with the PUA community and read a lot of different sources. I would get little success, but not anything that would register on the Richter Scale, a few kisses but still a virgin. I have been milling back and forth between different ways to view life, and I have truly decided that this community can be really helpful if I find people that I can relate to. I came across your pdf yesterday and read it in entirety. Something in me sparked. The simplicity of your pdf allowed me to develop whatever life I wanted and I could live a successful life in whatever I want to do and women. I was trying so hard to change myself to a person I could not see me becoming. Now, I am starting anew in small steps. Do you have any other insight that could help me in just becoming more into myself and developing no neediness for others?